New Big? You probably have questions. How much should you spend? What does she actually want? Do you have to do a basket? We've been on both sides of sorority life, and we hear these questions from Bigs in our shop all the time. Here are our honest answers, plus our favorite Pi Beta Phi gifts.
How much should I spend on my Little?
Whatever feels comfortable for you. Truly. A $20 gift with a heartfelt note means more than a $200 basket with no personal touch. Most Bigs spend somewhere between $25 and $100 total across reveal week, and you can make any budget feel special.
Under $25: The Oh So Fancy Letter Acrylic Keychain ($12), the Sorority Acrylic Keychain ($8), and a Tumbler Lid Tag ($4).
Going all out: The Pi Beta Phi Plush Sherpa Blanket ($72) and the Pi Beta Phi Canvas Tote Bag ($68).
What do Littles actually use?
The things that go with her everywhere. In our experience, the gifts that get the most love are the practical ones with a cute twist:
- Sorority Tumbler Fanny Pack ($18): She'll use it every single day.
- Sorority Hands-Free Keychain Wristlet ($22)
- Sorority Dynamic Duo Pouch Wristlet ($24)
- Sorority Essentials Quilted Cosmetic Pouch ($32)
What's a good reveal day gift?
Something she'll keep for years. The sherpa blanket is our top pick. Pair it with the Pi Beta Phi 11 oz Cozy Ceramic Mug ($18) filled with her favorite candy.
What's something she won't expect?
The Sorority Embroidered Crew Socks ($16). Everybody loves good socks, and nobody ever buys themselves Greek letter ones. Add the Greek Letter Teddy Pouch ($20) or the Twirl + Tie Scarf Accessory ($14) for something she can show off.
Do I have to do a basket?
Nope. But if you want to, we wrote a whole guide: How to Build the Perfect Big/Little Basket.
What matters most?
Showing up. The gifts are a fun way to start, but what she'll remember is that her Big texted her before her first exam, sat with her at chapter, and made her feel like she belonged. Start with a gift, then keep showing up.
Shop everything in our Pi Beta Phi Gifts collection, see all chapters in Big/Little Gifts, or visit us at 2302 N. Interstate Drive in Norman.
